Most people think about estate planning in terms of what happens to their belongings after they are gone. But some of the most important decisions in your plan are about what happens while you are still alive, specifically, what happens if you become unable to speak for yourself or make your own medical decisions.
That is where a healthcare proxy and a living will come in. Together, these two documents give your family clarity, give your medical team direction, and give you the peace of mind of knowing your wishes will be honored.
What Is a Healthcare Proxy?
A healthcare proxy, sometimes called a healthcare agent or medical power of attorney, is someone you legally designate to make medical decisions on your behalf if you are incapacitated. In Utah, naming a healthcare proxy is directly connected to your living will, which documents your specific preferences for end-of-life care and medical treatment.
Your healthcare proxy has the authority to access your medical records, engage with your doctors, oversee your medical care, and ensure your wishes are carried out. They serve as your voice when you cannot speak for yourself.
What Can a Healthcare Proxy Legally Do?
The legal rights of a healthcare proxy in Utah are broad, and it is important to understand the full scope of their authority. Your designated proxy can admit you to a licensed healthcare facility, including a nursing home. They can oversee your ongoing medical care, hire or change providers, and access your medical records at any time.
They can also work with your physicians to make decisions about life support, including when it may or may not be appropriate to remove it. In some cases, your healthcare proxy may also have the authority to authorize organ donation after your passing, if that is consistent with your wishes.
The Relationship Between a Healthcare Proxy and Your Living Will
In Utah, your healthcare proxy and your living will work together as a system. Your living will documents your personal preferences for medical treatment, including the types of interventions you do or do not want if you are terminally ill or in a persistent vegetative state.
Generally, your healthcare proxy does not have the authority to override the specific instructions in your living will. Their role is to carry out those wishes and to use their judgment in situations that your living will may not have anticipated. This is why both documents matter. The living will provides the foundation, and the healthcare proxy provides the human judgment to apply it.
How to Choose the Right Healthcare Proxy
Choosing your healthcare proxy is one of the most important decisions in your estate plan. This person does not need to be a medical professional or even a lawyer, but they need to be someone who understands your values and is willing to honor your wishes, even when it is emotionally difficult.
Many clients choose someone who shares similar views on medical care, whether that leans toward aggressive treatment or more natural, comfort-focused care. What matters most is that your proxy is willing to set their own feelings aside and follow through on what you have documented.
Think carefully about who in your life has the temperament to advocate clearly, communicate with a medical team under pressure, and make hard decisions without second-guessing themselves out of grief or guilt.
Why a Clear Medical Directive Matters
If your healthcare directive is vague or outdated, your proxy may find it difficult to carry out your wishes. Ambiguity in a medical directive can lead to delays in care, family disagreements, or outcomes that do not reflect what you would have wanted.
A well-written, up-to-date living will removes uncertainty. It tells your proxy, your doctors, and your family exactly what you want and gives everyone permission to act confidently on your behalf. One of the greatest gifts you can give your loved ones is a clear plan so they do not have to guess.
The Gift of Planning Ahead
If you have ever watched a loved one go through a serious medical event without a plan in place, you know how overwhelming and painful it can be. Families are left trying to make critical decisions without guidance, sometimes disagreeing about what their loved one would have wanted.
Having a healthcare proxy and a clear living will changes that experience. It removes some of the burden and the guilt from those decisions, because your family knows they are following your wishes, not their own judgment. That clarity is a profound gift.

